After getting really annoyed with the limit of 14 tabs, and having two slots taken up by 'Invite' and 'My Page' I decided to do something better out of it.
Normally you have 'Home' 'Invite' and 'My page' as your three first tabs on your page.
Invite is set up to be visible to members and u can't change that property.
'My page' is set up to show for everyone and u can't change that property either.
What u can do is change the text of them :-P
Hence I changed 'Invite' to 'My'. It always shows for members and never to visitors not logged in, perfect.
I added sub-menu-items to this 'My' menu instead, making the main menu 'My' a place holder. Though if you click 'My' in the main menu bar, you will be transfered to the invite page, a smaller sacrifice according to me.
The 'My page' is instead transformed to 'Members'. This works excellent too as a menu place holder with sub menu items to it.
And even if you click on 'Members' it works in a good way if you're logged in. If you're not, you get transfered to the sign-up page, not the best but a small price to pay.
This way I finally got a way to use the Invite-tab and got a way better use of the 'My page' tab. I 'won' two tabs in my race to stay at max 14 :)
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