She's a frequent welcomer from France. Long-time member of Creators.
Oh I got it. I thought It's a kinda spam coz I have never interacted with her. BTW, thanks Eric for letting me know.
She's kind of a unique person.
LOLOL I had someone else here doing the same thing to my page. I took care of it. I know it's not malicious, but repeatedly posting unwanted garish images on someone's profile is spam, no matter how you look at it.
I feel that you may be referring to me Patrick. If you had told me you didn't like someone posting to you out of kindness, I would have respected your wishes. Now I understand why you did what you did. Personally, I thought you might be racist at first by the way you handled it. I was a newbie and my feelings were hurt. However, I've moved on:-)
Who knows? Maybe you weren't referring to me above but your actions toward me as a newbie made me think you were.
It took me awhile to realize it wasn't personal:-) Take care Patrick, Eric and Mr. Lama.
I opted out of this discussion a few days ago, but neglected to click on the "stop follow" in the email. This message came across, and even as I compose my response, I'm not sure if it's worth it.
Yes, I could have asked you to cease posting your comments, but considering the volume of the number you were posting, it wasn't clear to me if there was any reasoning with you. Whenever someone posts a comment to my page, I receive an email from Creators. This in addition to emails I receive from other sites, friends and family. This is not merely true of me, but most of us here at Creators and elsewhere. It is the equivalent of knocking on someone's door and leaving a flyer or some literature at my door. The Jehovah's Witnesses do this, and I'm sure I don't have to tell you (or anyone else for that matter) what I think of their ill-conceived and dreadfully intrusive and annoying practice. They are well aware their advances are unwelcome, yet they persist. Placing a pit bull in the front yard is far more effective than having to ask they desist.
If I accept an individual into my online social circle, I expect my hospitality will not be abused. Sure, I could adjust my settings so that I'm not notified of every comment posted at my profile page, but that would leave out members who want to drop by and post the occasional comment. I should not have had to ask you (or anyone else) not to abuse my friendship, it should be understood from the outset. So for me, it was just as simple a task for me to unfriend you and make it so that only friends could comment on my wall. I didn't do it out of anger or malice, but for convenience sake. From what I've seen of you here, you're quite friendly. Despite my misanthropic philosophy and tough as nails attitude, I am capable of being funny and goofy when I want, but I draw the line at cute, glittery animated gifs (not to mention it's very Myspace-y and web 1.0-ish).
Not sure what to think of your comment about your assuming me to be racist. I never was, and I never will be.
As I said in my initial reply, "I have moved on." Obviously, YOU have not. My initial reply speaks of the person "I" am. Your response speaks of the person "you" are with the unwarranted comparisons (insults).
Creators serves people world wide with differences in beliefs, religions, etc. For many new creators, this platform can appear overwhelming and intimidating. Therefore, the way we approach our fellow creator is important. "KINDNESS" is universal and is generally welcomed by all but insulting opinions, vindictiveness... well we all know where they rate.
Finally, with regards to my statement "I thought you might be racist by the way you handled it" is what I typed. I didn't "assume" you were. Now with all said, this is my last reply to this discussion.
Remembering That KINDNESS Speaks Volumes,
I have moved on, I'm simply bored. Haha!
I'm only mean (cruel in fact) to my enemies. You're the first to imply otherwise. For several years I have spent countless hours helping strangers here on Creators, I take care of my 98 year old grandmother and have been doing so for the past four years with no assistance from anyone, I nearly lost my life trying to protect the child of a stranger against criminals. You can not lecture me on the virtues of kindness. Being kind doesn't mean I must suffer fools gladly. I don't forgive, and I hold grudges, and I suppose that means I'm not perfect. But "mean"? No.
I speak bluntly, as I would to any adult. There was nothing "mean" about my comment. My analogy couldn't be more accurate.
Insulting others for the sake of it is not my habit.