sigh...everything was fine until I decided to 'fix' my domain mapping.  I was setting up a new ning site and my hosting company BlueHost told me I had the domain map set up wrong.   This is how FEMSocial.com has been set up since I launched it, but I haven't been getting email so i though 'well, maybe it's because I don't have the mapping set up right.' So I 'fixed it'. Now I can't get to the sit…